Celebrate love the Proper way—our reimagined landmark in San Francisco’s Mid Market District offers an inspiring backdrop for intimate weddings, post-courthouse celebrations, meaningful receptions, group dinners, and more. Discover our range of design-driven, indoor-outdoor spaces made for an unforgettable experience.


Set an intimate wedding or dinner enveloped in stunning views of the SF skyline from the Charmaine’s rooftop—our indoor-outdoor restaurant and bar can host up to 20 guests seated or 50 as a standing cocktail reception, with events paired with personalized menus crafted in collaboration with our award-winning culinary team. 


Villon Patio

Find a relaxed, stylish al fresco ambiance for ceremonies, receptions, or convivial dinners on the Villon patio, with space to host up to 40 guests seated or 75 as a celebratory reception—all paired with personalized menus & beverage pairings from Villon’s innovative, chef-driven menu. 


Gilda’s Private Dining Room

Host an intimate wedding dinner or reception from a perfectly private, romantic Gilda’s—our one-of-a-kind & cozy space reserved for meaningfully exclusive gatherings of up to 12 guests.


Charmaine's rooftop wedding reception

Elopement Package


Whether you’re eloping or choosing to celebrate with only your closest few, our Proper “I Do” offering is curated to make it a meaningful & one-of-a-kind experience. Created in collaboration with our team of events experts, host your Proper “I Do” in our SF Proper event space and allow us to handle the planning, including:

  • Welcoming up to 12 guests at Charmaine's (The Point only) or up to 50 guests on the La Bande Patio
  • Officiant
  • Bridal bouquet & boutonniére
  • Your selection of entrance & exit song
  • Complimentary wedding photograph, with expanded photography options available

Proper Ingredients


From signature wedding cocktails to conference breakfasts, Proper’s banquets and catering team recognize that events are imbued with meaning. That’s why of-the-moment catering and cocktailing options are customized for each client by our culinary team and BVHospitality (Bon Vivants, Trick Dog). Likewise, service is overseen with keen attention to every detail–down to handpicked china and glassware.

Start the Conversation

Learn more about San Francisco Proper’s range of wedding & event spaces—start the conversation with our award-winning, in-house events team and find a collaborative creative partner here to simplify your planning and bring your wedding dreams to life.

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A Wedding Retreat

Allow our spacious Proper suites & design-driven guest rooms to be a perfect home base for getting ready pre-ceremony…or a cozy respite after a night of celebration. Any of our rooms can be booked in conjunction with an event in our hotel, with group blocks available as blocks, suites, connecting suites, and more.

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